We take little attention to the skin of the skin. But she needs care to no less than thin and sensitive skin.

An invaluable thing is a good hand cream. But often we remember him only with the onset of cold weather. This is unfair: hands, our faithful assistants, deserve much more care. By nature, the skin of female hands is very thin. It is almost devoid of hair, and therefore the sebaceous glands, which are inextricably linked with hair follicles and are responsible for the production of nutrient components. The number of aggressive factors acting on our brushes is huge: frost, wind, sun, detergents, dust, water, severity … Their consequences are small wrinkles, swollen veins, rough, thin skin. How to help your hands?

1. Clean

Lancôme Cream for intense nutrition and restoration of the skin of the Nutrix Royal Mains;Payot cream for nutrition and softening the skin of Douceur des Mains.

Liquid soap contains more moisturizing components and gently cleanses the skin of the hands than the lump. You can adapt for these purposes and shampoo for dry hair: it has the most nutrients in it. Veronika Pak, a master of manicure with 20 years of experience, advises to complete every hand washing with cool water. “Such vascular training will preserve the elasticity of the skin, establish blood circulation and make the veins less noticeable,” agrees the dermatologist Andrei Trubachev. – But this does not mean that the brushes must first steam, and then freeze. The difference in water temperature should be 10-15 degrees “. A separate place in cleaning the skin of the hands belongs to peeling: they should be used twice a week to smooth, soften and lighten the skin. If there is no special tool at hand (hand peeling is distinguished by a small size of granules and a high concentration of nutrient and wound healing components), you can use a body scrub by mixing it with a moisturizing milk.

2. Moisturize

The skin of the back of the palm contains five times less moisture than other parts of our body. But this supply is depleted due to frequent contact with water, temperature changes and household chemicals. Therefore, it is good to take the rule to take care of your hands if possible. “How many means are needed for optimal care for this area? Consider: one tube lies in my bathroom. The second is in the kitchen. The third in the bedroom. Fourth – in a bag. The fifth is in the office of the office table, ”the creator of one of the best brands for skin care, Christina Fitzgerald, lists. But this does not mean that we must spend astronomical amounts on creams. The skin of the hands gratefully absorbs any active substances. For example, if a randomly purchased face cream did not fit, you can give it your hands. They are

less sensitive, and since the aging mechanisms in all areas of our skin are the same, the components of the product will not be left without work.

Clarins brightening cream Jeunesse des Mains;Christina Moisturizer with Forever Young UV filter;Dior Restorative Cream with a UV filter Capture Totale.

3. Clarify

The main signal of the quantity – and quality – the age we have lived is pigmentation. Even a small dark spot visually the most soaked hands. A stereotype that came from the east is triggered, where an indicator of age has always been considered an even skin tone, and not its tone or softness. In Asia, few can touch female handles, men have to evaluate them only visually. If we also do not like spots, today a lot of funds are invented that can quickly eliminate pigmentation, starting with brightening serums, deep peeling in the salons and ending with photo and laser procedures (they remove 70% of the spots per session). By the way, creams with sunscreen filters will help to avoid such problems. And camouflage – flesh -colored proof.

4. Correct

Plastic surgery to lengthen the fingers or fix the shape of the hand yet. Surgeons offer skin tightening – however, after it small seams will remain on the wrists. But the brushes will be found again a young look. Another aesthetic problem is Vienna. The reason is a sharp weight loss, age -related thinning of the skin, hereditarily large vessels, a strong load on the brushes … Here, professionals recommend subcutaneous drugs based on hyaluronic acid. It compacts and levels the skin, which makes the veins less noticeable. Plastic surgeon, doctor of medical sciences David Grishkyan considers the best rejuvenating method of lipofilling, in other words – injections of his own adipose tissue (it is taken from the region above the knees). This not only makes hands beautiful outwardly, but also launches anti -aging processes in them.

Find mutual understanding is not easy even with family. And someone from loved ones creates their own family, letting a new person into your life is even more difficult. Where does so much resistance come from? And how to help yourself?

“I love my mother-in-law,” the 36-year-old Natalia laughs. – Although the relationship did not work out right away: there was a time when I contracted into a lump, as soon as it appeared at our house. It seemed to me that she fills all the space, pushes me away from my husband. But he did not have problems with my parents: they immediately managed to find a common language … It was terribly unfair: he was friends with my relatives, and I and his mother -. I had to learn from him methods to establish relationships … ”However, often new relatives cannot do not only get closer, but even just to communicate calmly when they force circumstances. “Any change in the composition of the family, whether it is a wedding, the appearance of children or an elderly relative who requires care, violates balance,” says the family psychotherapist Varvara Sidorov. The other is a stranger, a person is not from his usual circle, a stranger, letting out which means to block everything that worked before him somehow. “When a new person tries to integrate into an established system, the distance between all participants changes: the beginner needs to pay attention, which means that someone will get him less,” continues the therapist continues. – how the adaptation will pass, depends on the individual characteristics of each participant, on their mood and the desire to accept another. The most difficult thing is close -up families: it is not only more difficult to enter them, but it is much more difficult for them to let someone else ”.

Coming – hidden good?

You can, of course, relate to the emergence of new family members as a happy acquisition, “additional value”. But – it does not always succeed. 43-year-old Valentina admits that he cannot accept his brother’s wife. “So many years have passed, and it still annoys me. Before each meeting, I try to pull myself together, but the tension still hangs in the air. In our family, mind, taste, education have always been valued. All this has nothing to do with her “. Valentina regrets that he was coming from his brother. “We have always been good friends, supported each other … Perhaps that is why the appearance of this woman, not at all as my brother and I, who, in my opinion, only excite the outfits, I took it as a betrayal on his part,” she says.

“There is the concept of your circle as a social group,” comments Barbara Sidorov. – a new person often behaves not according to the rules. Simply because the cultural codes of two families do

not coincide. Often, for this reason, the one who brought the “stranger” has to make a choice in his favor and move away from relatives, which, of course, is perceived in the family as a betrayal ”.

To get along, finding a common language is difficult not only for adults who are forced to grow up after the wedding. Problems may also arise in children from previous marriages, when they begin to build relationships with each other, with a stepfather or stepmother. They are afraid to lose the love of their parent or suspect a “newcomer” that he wants to take the place of his own … Any situation where you need to “join” the well -established team (for example, worker) is accompanied by difficulties, but in the family conflicts may be stronger,since the bets are higher. The question always arises about the place of everyone and the unconscious rivalry. “For example, the grandmother on the part of her father is actively involved in the life of her grandson, and the mother begins to be afraid that the child will love her more,” says Varvara Sidorov. – After all, mom is going to doctors, brushing your teeth, testing lessons. And the grandmother is an eternal holiday: sweets, games, toys … Perhaps my mother does not want to get rid of a stranger who, coming, takes the attention of not only children, but also her husband ”.